‘Take a gap year, it will be the best experience of your life’, someone said to me when I was in lower sixth: ‘You’ll never forget it’.
Whilst now I can say I whole-heartedly agree with these two statements, at the time I remember feeling, well, a little afraid to be honest.
So, if like me, you’re apprehensive about going travelling, whether it be for 1 month or 6, don’t feel like you’re an anomaly. I’ve now been lucky enough to travel multiple times, both after school and in uni holidays, and so feel qualified to give some top tips on the ‘dos and don’ts’.
One thing many people feel apprehensive about before going is, quite understandably, where to stay. When I was 18, I’d never stepped foot in a hostel before, and the idea of sharing a dorm with random people was, quite frankly, terrifying. However, as soon as you’ve done it once, you’ll realise that there’s really nothing to fear, and hostels have always seemed to me a safe space.
Not only are you surrounded by other like-minded travellers, usually ranging from late teens to late twenties, but there is always someone around you can ask for help. Many hostels have their own travel agencies on site, allow all-night check in, and have their own safety measures in place. Additionally, (and perhaps most importantly!) almost every hostel I’ve stayed in has a rota of activities, ranging from beer pong competitions to cooking classes, meaning that if you’re travelling in a small group or by yourself it’s super easy to meet people. This summer, I travelled to Peru with a friend, and one of my top tips for meeting people is just to put yourself out there. Many hostels include free breakfast in their rates, in this is another great place to meet people- there’s never any harm in asking another traveller far away from home if they want to join you on your day’s activities, and most people will be delighted to make some new friends.
Another fear of mine, particularly when I first when travelling when I was 18, was how to get around the place. Night buses, I thought, sounded both horribly long and a little scary. However, once you’ve done your first one, you realise they are not so bad if you are careful when choosing the provider. In most places, it will be clear from a quick google search, from popping into a travel agent or just asking at your hostel to find out which are the trust-worthy providers. I was pleasantly surprised to travel in night buses with reclining chairs, a gift package of water and some crackers, and loos on board most buses in South America. In India, the standard was slightly lower but still there was nothing to worry about. One tip a friend of mine gave me, was to strap a bum bag beneath your jumper with your most important possessions (passport, phone etc) whilst you sleep, so you know your things will be safe and so you can fully relax into the journey (and sleep).
All in all, travelling to me has been one of the greatest discoveries of my life, and I couldn’t recommend it more. My top tips: look on hostel world or on booking.com to find the hostels with the highest rating, choose your travel options wisely, and, mainly, be open to meeting new people! The ultimate destinations for those starting out are: (1) India (cheap, with lots of great hostels and well-trodden routes): 2) South America (better not alone if you’re a girl) and 3) Thailand.
Don’t hesitate, traveling is so much easier than you may think now. Just get on that plane…
By Lara Morant
Useful links
https://www.travelforteens.com/blog/the-benefits-of-teen-travel/
https://worldlyadventurer.com/is-it-safe-to-travel-south-america/
https://www.laidbacktrip.com/posts/is-it-safe-to-travel-in-south-america
https://www.intrepidtravel.com/adventures/india-trip-teenage-perspective/
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